Friday, July 27, 2018
There have been some confusing notions about engaging in sexual intercourse during the monthly flow of a woman. Having sex with your partner during this period has more advantages but may be marred by the fact that some partners sees it as a disgusting act which should never be considered.
One of the major advantages of having sexual intercourse during this period is because it actually helps relieve women of menstrual cramps. If a woman during sexual intercourse with her partner gets to her climax and releases, the muscle around the uterus will contract and this will help relief her of her cramps.
Due to the simple reason that women sex drive is not stable as it fluctuates, most women sex drive increases during this period. The endorphin chemical is released during intercourse between partners during this period. The chemical is a feel good factor as the female folks go through some form of stress during this period.
The worrying effect about engaging in sexual intercourse during this period is the high risk of sexually transmitted infection (STI). This is because there is quick transfer of blood during this time in a woman's cycle.
Sex during this period is always an opportunity to have a good time because there will be no need for lubricant as the vagina lubricates itself during this cycle. It is advisable to stay away from sex some days before the flow because of the symptoms of the Vagina yeast infection which most time occurs during this period and having sex when these symptoms is already there will only increase the symptoms.
Women during this period always have high urge for sexual intercourse because their hormones will undergo some changes which will improve sex drive. Engaging in sexual intercourse during this period does not result in pregnancy except for some rare cases. it is widely believed and accepted that it is against nature and therefore a taboo to have sex with your spouse during this time. If as a man you care less about both of you being stained with blood, then why not, go ahead and make your happy because this is the time she need it most.
It is advisable for the female folks to change their sanitary pad if they want to engage in sexual activities with their partners. This is important so as to prevent the transfer of bacteria. It is also important to have a good bath before getting laid so as to create a nice environment for the sexual pleasure to manifest. In this case, the missionary sex style should be considered so as to minimize the mess that may happen during sex.
Although there are numerous religious reasons that will tell you having sexual affair with a person who is currently on her period is evil and a taboo. It should be worth noting that in a woman's life time she may menstruate over 400 times, which according to the religion, men as should steer clear during that period, which on the other hand means missing sexual pleasure for more than 2,000 days.
Thursday, July 12, 2018
Do you rise in ecstasy when you are getting down with your partner or do you squeeze your face in pain? Pain during and after sex is something most women experience. Why this pain? Let's find out:
Causes of vaginal pain during sex
When having sex, it is common to feel a subtle pain especially if your partner penetrates deep into you. But when there is no such deep penetration and you feel pain even when he is still trying to penetrate, then something must be wrong and it may be one of these reasons
Infections such as vaginal thrush, urinary tract infection, and sexually transmitted disease could be the cause of the pain you are feeling down there. Other inflammatory conditions such as endometriosis, blocked Fallopian tubes, cervix inflammation could also cause pain during sex.
Thrush is common with women who are pregnant, and those who wear tight clothing. Other causes of thrush come from antibiotics medication or products that irritate the vagina.
Sexually transmitted diseases will cause symptoms such as heavy vaginal discharge followed by itching, and general pains.
Lack of lubrication
You are probably experiences a dry spell down there due a messed up hormone, some medications or birth control pills you are taking or simply because you are not aroused but your sex partner wants sex at that moment.
Lack of lubrication can be as a result of vaginal dryness caused by menopause or thyroid problems.
Birth control pills can cause vagina dryness and subsequent pain during sex in even a younger woman of 25 years. New birth control pills that are currently made do not have sufficient estrogens; the hormone responsible for women’s feeling of sexual arousal. They also contain a type of progestin which is capable of lowering testosterone in women.
Vaginal structural problems
If you have just delivered a baby or you went through great difficulties to give birth and probably had vaginal tearing that is still trying to heal, then you might feel great pains when getting down with your partner. Other structural problems include female circumcision, uterine fibroid, a cyst or an abnormal hymen.
Vaginismus is a condition where the vagina and the pelvic floor muscles tighten for no apparent reason. This condition can make sex painful especially when there is a forced penetration. Vaginismus is caused by a lot of thing such as sexual abuse, using tampons etc. Vaginismus can be so severe that sometimes the vagina does not even get to open. It makes the vaginal muscles clench so hard you cannot even penetrate a little. And because it can happen anytime, some women experience it during sex which makes sex painful.
Vulvodynia is a chronic pain condition that causes pain around the vulva region. Anything can trigger these pain even minor things like sitting or riding a bike. As long as it puts pressure on the vulva, you are likely to experience pain. The cause of this chronic condition is unknown but can cause pains during sex.
Saturday, June 30, 2018
The importance of healthy nutrition to the body cannot be overemphasized, it can especially help you stay fitter, healthier, and keep out unwanted fat deposits from the body. An excellent nutritional plan will also significantly improve your bedroom life, it can induce a tremendous physical and emotional health which can promote high sex drive. You don't have to hit a slump in your bedroom life before you pay attention to the things that you eat.
It is essential to focus more on the whole, natural food choices that are rich in fiber and have low to moderate calorie content. An excellent selection of diet should include vegetables, legumes, fruits, lean meat, nuts, non-fat dairy products, fish, and whole grain. These foods are known to increase your metabolic rate, increase satiety, improve cognitive performance, enhance blood and nutrient circulation, and ultimately give you a better sexual life that you can be proud of.
Studies have shown that foods that improve general heart health and improve the circulatory system are very potent in promoting sexual health. Just as impaired blood flow to the brain, heart, and limbs can have serious medical complications, decreased blood flow to the genitals can cause severe erectile dysfunction. In any case, there's bound to be a significant improvement in your sexual health if you make an attempt to improve on your nutrition and incorporate healthy choices of food into your diet.
Here is a selection of great food choices to include in your diet in order to have a healthier sexual lifestyle.
· Lean protein (Meat)
Proteins are very essential for muscle contraction, repair, and formation. Lean proteins, such as pasture-raised beef, and chicken, contain vital amino acids, e.g., L-arginine and carnitine, which can enhance blood circulation that is in turn, crucial for sexual arousal in both sexes.
Apples, along with cherries, berries (blueberries, blackberries, raspberries, and strawberries), grapes and onions, are laden with antioxidants such as quercetin, a type of flavonoid. Quercetin helps to guard the sexual organs against infections, such as interstitial cystitis (associated with genital pain, low sexual desire, erectile dysfunction, and genital pain) and prostatitis (causes inflammation of the prostate gland and can lead to painful ejaculation and testicular discomfort).
· Onions and Garlic
Onion is an excellent source of plenty of minerals that can help strengthen the organs, regulate blood sugar, stimulate the release of testosterone, increase libido, encourage the production of good HDL cholesterol. Garlic is known to improve sexual stamina, it's anticoagulant property will enhance circulation and ensure blood flow to the sexual organs.
Salmon is also a good choice of food to incorporate into your diet in order to improve your sexual life. Salmon contains omega-3 fatty acids which are fundamental to sexual health. Omega-3 fatty acids effectually enhance blood circulation and prevent plaque's buildup in the arteries. Salmon also helps to cut the risk of prostate cancer.
While diets alone may not be sufficient in reversing severe instances of sexual dysfunction such as impotence, severe sexual pain, lack of sexual desire, among others, it is always recommended to seek help from your healthcare practitioner in order to enjoy your sexual relationship with your partner.
Wednesday, June 20, 2018
Men might not admit when it occurs, but they feel romantic at particular moments in relationships, just like women do. Sure, society has trained us to “man up” and not get too emotional about things — good luck overcoming those feelings. But honestly, it’s not healthy to hold all those emotions in. Men, you recognize you want to let those feelings out, especially when you’re with a lady who can get your romantic side to come out. So ladies, if you think you don’t know how to make us melt you’re probably not giving yourself enough credit.
A friendly, inviting smile is a surefire way to seduce any man. Flashing him these pearly whites of yours is probably the primary reason he got caught in the first place. Next time you’re with your man, smile at him while gazing deep into his eyes, bat your eyelashes, and coyly ask “What?” When he halts like a deer in searchlights, that’s when you know you’ve got him. (Most ladies already do this, by the way.)
2.) Looking At One Another From Afar.
Whether it’s a restaurant or a cookout or a bar, it’s great when you’re a slight distance away from your other half but still close enough to see each other’s facial expressions. It’s the kind of glance where you two share a smirk and know precisely what the other is thinking. That mind reading type of chemistry is astonishing when you find it. It’s also remarkably distracting, especially when those glances are packed with sexual purposes. Is it time to go home yet?
3.) Sending Sex Appealing And Naughty Texts.
The “I miss you” are adorable and all, but it’s the sex appeal “I can’t imagine we’re alone later ;)” texts that get a guy’s attention. The timing of those texts adds to the moment, too. Having a distressed day at the office or sitting in bumper-to-bumper traffic — getting a well-timed saucy text from the girl you’re dating can brighten up the darkest day. There’s nothing hotter than a woman who talks the talk and walks the walk. These texts are mental foreplay that give you and your partner some sexual stimulation.
4.) Sharing Intimate Aspects About Herself.
It can be difficult for women (and men) to initiate a conversation about personal stories. Revealing intimate aspects of her past shows, she trusts you with her emotions, and more precisely, her heart. If she starts a convo with “I haven’t told too many people this,” it indicates you’re not just another guy. Intimate details help develop rapport, which quickly leads to a healthier sexual relationship. If you feel relaxed opening up to him, do it – he’ll feel honored that you aren’t holding back, and you’ll be well on your way to a stable bond.
5.) Giving You A Unique Gift That Relates To A Conversation You Once Had.
When she surprises you with something you talked about for only a second a few weeks ago, it shows that she’s intensely listening to what you have to say. She also wants to show you she cares and that even the tiniest detail matters to her. It’s not about the cost of the gift; it is the thought that counts here, sometimes the least gifts speak the loudest. Don’t forget to say thank you — and pay it forward with a return gift of your own.
Saturday, June 2, 2018
The way women experience sexual pleasure is hard to deconstruct. Their genitalia is located on the insides of her bodies, and they don’t regularly experience the same physical proof of orgasm that men do.
Men, on the other hand, aren’t (typically) afforded that same ability. For guys, the climax is associated with ejaculation. And these intense orgasm are often understood to be unique to the male sexual experience. But maybe it’s time to revisit that conversation. Maybe men and women aren’t as different as we thought. The world of female ejaculation is ripe with mystery and magic, and those who have experienced it will attest to the latter. But a great deal of skepticism still revolves around the act.
Although some men believe that it doesn't exist, it is possible to give a woman an ejaculating orgasm. You can bring your woman to have one of the greatest climaxes of her life, and you can make this happen tonight. It is time that you learned some stimulation techniques to make her squirt.
You can make a woman achieve female ejaculation, and you can make it happen tonight. The key to this type of orgasm is all about g-spot stimulation. Focusing on the clitoris and giving her pleasure that way is not going to help you here. You need to learn how to touch the g-spot and what to do to make her feel this crazy amount of pleasure.
The easiest way to touch a woman's g-spot is to get her aroused first. Then, you can locate it with much more ease instead of fish around inside of her looking like a fool. It is said that foreplay is essential to the female orgasm and this holds especially true when it comes to female ejaculation. The more foreplay you give to her, the more the g-spot will engorge with blood and the bigger it will become. Then, when you go to enter her body with either your fingers or your penis, you will be able to feel the spot that you need to spend the most time on.
If you want to make a woman achieve female ejaculation, then it is best to use your fingers. When you use your fingers, you have the most control, and you can use these stimulation techniques to the fullest extent. One way of g-spot stimulation is to use your fingers in the same motion that you would during sex. Simulating this in and out movement is the easiest way to arouse her. However, if you want to kick it up a notch and if you desire to make her squeal in the bedroom, then you should move your fingers in circles.
When you do this, you offer her a new sensation that she has probably never felt before. As well, you hit the g-spot over and over and over again, and that is precisely what you want to have happened. You want to fill up every inch of her, and you want to make her feel something new. By doing this, you can easily make her squirt and help her to achieve the holy grail of the female orgasm.
Female ejaculation is real, and it is something that you should strive to achieve tonight. Give your woman some of the greatest pleasure of her life with these finger stimulation techniques.
Tuesday, May 22, 2018
If you’re a man then you have definitely felt the pressure of performing as one in the bed. There is the (unrealistic) image of each men being a powerhouse in bed with women. If you find that you’re not having great sex regularly, then you may begin to think that you’re somehow less of a man. While this is not the case and it’s a toxic way to think about things – there is a quick fix for all your troubles in bed.
Have you ever considered getting an hard erection sex pill? Chances are that you know people that have used it and that you have seen advertisements and marketing placements about it. But what is a male sexual enhancement pill? It’s a pill that if you drink it you will experience an improvement in the size of your erection, its firmness, and its longevity.
There are many ingredients that are used in the creation of a sex pill. Our suggestion is that you use only natural, plant-based erection pills. These are shown to have the best possible effects with the least possible side-effects. The ingredients that are typically used for these pills are pomegranate extract, Avena staiva, l-carnitine, omega-3, beta-sitosterol, vitamin B6, green tea extract, Eurycoma longifolia, and many others.
These ingredients work in different ways. They may work in isolation or synergistically with some other ingredients to create a whole that’s bigger than the sum of the parts. Mostly, they will work on relaxing the blood vessels so that your organ will get engorged with blood a lot easier. Also, they will work on the production of nitric oxide which has been shown to be of tremendous importance when it comes to getting and maintain a hard erection.
That being said, nothing is perfect and neither are the male sexual enhancement pills. Some people may find out that these people don’t work for them. This case, the sexual issues that prevent you from getting an erection may be psychological, not physical. In such a case, we suggest that you go and see a doctor. He or she will be able to give you sound advice on what your next move should be if you experience problems with getting and maintaining an erection.
And there are also people that will experience side-effects. Painful erections and premature ejaculations are not uncommon among erection pills users. If you find that the side-effects are a lot bigger than the benefits that you will get for using these pills – then you should consider discontinuing the use of these pills. In any case, again, you should go and see a medical specialist for an advice.
All in all, the erection pills can prove to be the boost that you need when it comes to improving your sex life. If you think that they will help you out – then there is no harm done in trying them out for a few times. See if you like their use and continue or discontinue using them based on their merits for you.
Friday, May 11, 2018
You must have heard the statement, “You are what you eat”. This simply tells us that what we pass through our mouth whether solid or liquid goes a long way to make us. This is because food plays a lot of roles in our body such as giving us energy, building up the body and fighting diseases. It also helps in ensuring steady blood flow and balancing our hormones. But the reverse is the case when we eat the wrong type of food. It causes a whole lot of havoc in the body including low sexual stamina, blood flow and of course, poor sex life. Let’s have a look at what type of diet helps in destroying your sex life.
It is no secrets that this type of food contains a large amount of unhealthy fat which can harm your hormones by lowering your testosterone level and you know this is what fuels your sex drive. So you might want to be careful with those type of good that gets you weight up rapidly. It also clogs the arteries which is responsible for a smooth blood flow. This can lead to an erectile dysfunction as the blood which was meant to flow into the penis has been clogged. Also, foods such as sugary cereals or white bread increases your blood sugar rapidly and when your body tries to keep up by producing insulin, the whole process makes you tired which would indirectly have an effect on your sexual life.
Eating fruits, food that contains balanced diet or cereals that contain fiber such as oats, and exercising daily is the best way to counter this negative outcome.
Despite the advantage of going vegan, entirely cutting out your body’s supply of vitamin D in form of protein could spell a lot of danger for your penis. A lack of vitamin D is enough reason for erectile dysfunction to take up residence in your sex life. This is because, your body in unable to produce enough nitric oxide which helps your blood vessels carry out its full function.
At this stage, we know we can’t advise you to keep you to stop being a vegan, but taking dietary supplements of vitamin d and getting enough sun can help mitigate the risk. Also eating things like cheese, eggs, and salmon can help.
Big Portions of Food
According to Dr. Brahmbhatt, Piling too much food on your plate is capable of slowing things down in bed. When you over eat, you become too tired and lazy to accomplish anything including having sex. Rather, than mounting a big portion of food to eat all at once, you can cut it down into smaller portions.
This is another sex life destroyer with a more glaring effect. Alcohol consumers are less likely to perform well in bed than someone who has nothing to do with alcohol. Why? This is because alcohol raises your estrogen levels which can cause low male libido and stop you from maintain a hard erection. Try putting a stop to drinking totally or, limit it to two bottles per day.
Wednesday, March 21, 2018
While most men that have had a normal upbringing have no issues talking and relating to women – there is a relatively small subset of men that can’t really talk to women without having a nervous breakdown. Of course, we’re exaggerating things here a bit, but the fact of the matter is that there are many men that feel terrified of the prospect of talking to women. Well, if you’re one such man, then fear not, because help is at hand. Below you will find some advice on what you can do if you wish to be able to talk to women without feeling afraid.
The first thing that you need to do in the process of healing yourself is to accept yourself. Of course, you may not like the fact that you’re afraid of women – but accepting the fact that you are afraid of women is the first step that you can take towards fixing this condition. It will help you realize who you are and where you’re standing and this will help you make the first step towards recovery.
Then, we recommend you take small steps towards mastery. What act frightens you when it comes to dealing with women? For some, it may be meeting women that they don’t personally know. For some others, it may be just talking to any women. And for some, the sole sight of a woman can induce panic attacks. It’s important to know where you’re at in order to take the first step. And we recommend you to take baby steps. If looking at a woman makes you feel afraid – then try to make the experience a little less frightening.
Chances are that you will have a smaller reaction if you watch women on the TV as compared to watching them in real life. So, there is one thing that you could do. Also, make sure that you spend more and more time looking at women on the street. Get out more. Don’t overdo it because the process may backfire. Make sure that you get out of your comfort zone and you will see that you’re less and less afraid of women.
For true mastery of this process we recommend you to take the hardest step possible if you’re a man in this situation – talk to girls that you don’t know. Luckily, we live in times when we can remain anonymous no matter who we talk to. You can meet women everywhere – on the streets, in the grocery store, in the mall, and in the clubs. Make it a habit of introducing yourself to at least one woman every single day. In this way, you will blast through your fear and you will find that it wasn’t so difficult to talk and relate to women after all.
This may be a long and hard path that you will take – but the benefits that you will get at the end of it will be tremendous. We wish you good luck and we hope that you will make it in defeating your personal demons.
Monday, February 19, 2018
Most people are well aware of what sexually transmitted diseases, or STDs, are. The term has recently been reconstructed into STIs – sexually transmitted infections – but it still describes the same things, and it describes all of the diseases and infections that are mostly caught through intercourse. Many of these diseases and infections are curable – and you will get the best of it if you go on regular checkups. But some can be so serious that they even may be deadly for you. This is why it’s important to practice safe sex.
One of the best ways in which you can protect yourself from STDs is through the use of a condom. This is one of the most effective devices that people can use to protect themselves not only from unwanted pregnancies but also from sexually transmitted diseases. Of course, you need to be aware that the condom does not offer fool-proof protection in the case of unwanted pregnancies, or from STIs. But this does not mean that you should discard the use of condoms – on the contrary, you should use them as often as you can. Sure, it may cost you some money in order to get high-quality condoms on a frequent basis, but in the end, it will be well worth your while to purchase them, as the preservation of your health is priceless.
Next off, you should be careful as to who you’ll be having sexual relations with. And don’t let looks fool you – a person may look perfectly healthy, but still be sick with a sexually transmitted disease. Before engaging in sexual conduct with someone, make sure that you ask them about their sexual history. If you find out that they have had a shady past in this manner – be extremely careful. The use of condoms in these cases is of the utmost importance. And the best thing to do is to find someone that is on frequent abstinence periods – even though this too is not a guarantee that they are perfectly healthy.
Finally, the most powerful tip that we can give to you is to practice sexual abstinence yourself. Of course, this is the hardest to implement, as one of the biggest drives that we humans have is the sex drive – there’s no question about it. But still, we can decide to not always act on our sex drives and have sex with whoever is available to us. Sex can be a fun and safe experience if you’re careful enough.
If you have regular sexual relations with different sex partners – the best thing that you could do, besides using a condom, is to go on frequent checkups to the doctor. Again – many of the sexually transmitted diseases are fully curable if you catch them early enough, and even the most devastating sexual disease, HIV, can be managed effectively if it’s caught at an early phase. So, we wish you to have a lot of fun with the practice of having safe sexual relations.
Tuesday, January 30, 2018
Clitoral orgasms are so delicious to women that they crave them night and day. Men don't realize this! Here's keys to giving your woman ten different types of clitoral orgasms from the ancient Chinese love masters. Only recently were the secret techniques translated. Overcome the long-held problems of clitoral sensitivity and pain with these new techniques.
Most men and virtually all women know about the female clitoris. Once most women have a clitoral orgasm it is very sensitive and more touch can be painful. Traditionally, this has limited multiple orgasms a bit.
Here's are some step that will ramp up her sexual pleasure after each type and improve sexual performance. She will literally be thrashing around, rippling from head to toe, and screaming with all her might.
1st Technique. No-touch clitoral orgasm.
There's many reasons why this is one of the best female orgasms ever. First, it sets up the woman's wild excitement and makes her ready for almost anything! Second, it gives her a wild, head to toe orgasm! Third, it gives her an intense orgasm without touch so literally you can go to her clitoris again without the usual sensitivity and pain. In fact, most women INSIST upon TOUCH! Fourth, you can do this anywhere. At home, in a car, even in a library!
The key to this orgasm is to evoke women's amazing imagination toward what they want in an unfulfilled fantasy, sex game, or sexual technique. Then, once you know what really turns her on, you describe, step by step, how you'd do that to and for her. You need to make it very REAL and very NOW. Act and talk as if you're actually doing that to her now.
Even if you don't succeed the first time, if you have any skill at all in communicating with her, you will turn her on more ever before.
2nd Technique. Breast-clitoral orgasm.
Many women can have a clitoris orgasm just by sucking and licking their nipples. There's a nerve from their nipples to their clitoris. So you can give them two consecutive clitoris orgasms without even touching their clitoris. They feel it internally. And it makes them so hot that they just HAVE TO HAVE your touch!
The key is to start slowly, tease around the clitoris, and then finally lick and suck it. Then gradually increase your speed and suction power. Don't hurt her but get feedback. It should take about 5-10 minutes.
3rd Technique. Clitoral orgasm.
Once she's had one or two clitoris orgasms without touch, she's absolutely going to be WILD for your touch. It shouldn't be sensitive or painful, but it will be throbbing and waiting for you.
Touch it on the very tip with an upward stroke and retreat. Make her tilt her pelvis to your touch, whether by finger or tongue. Make her impale herself on you as you tease her and tease her. It should take about 5 minutes of teasing for her climax.
4th Technique. Breast/clitoral orgasm combo.
Once you get each of these types you can simply combine them together. Suck her nipples hard again as you gently touch her clitoris. I recommend that you start first with the breasts and let her clitoris have a little rest. Soon, she'll draw your hand or head down there.
5th Technique. Clitoral/g-spot orgasm combo.
Now, start working on her g-spot as you let the clitoris rest a bit. Slide one or two fingers inside her and use a "come hither" motion on her g-spot. It should take about 3-5 minutes of firm stroking and then gently touch the clitoris with either your finger or graze it with your teeth.
6th Technique. Deep vaginal/clitoral orgasm combo.
You can now drive inside her with your penis and reach the deep vaginal spot which is 8 inches inside at the top. Don't worry if you're not 8 inches long. You can reach it by her increasing vibrations, your hot ejaculation, or just her imagination. Stroke upward to hit the clitoris as you slide your penis out. Use this combination and she will go nuts.
7th Technique. Breast/clitoral/g-spot triple combo.
Now, apply the breast, clitoris, and g-spot at the same time. Use the same techniques and hit the clitoris last. You can "milk her breasts" with your hands as you rub her clitoris and g-spot with your fingers and thumb or mouth and teeth.
8th Technique. Clitoris/g-spot/deep vaginal triple combo.
Now, get in a chair and have her straddle you (when she stops shaking so much) and she can now rock backwards and forwards and hit all three spots at the same time with the same techniques as described above.
9th Technique. Breast/clitoris/g-spot/deep vaginal quadruple combo.
Now for the finale! From the straddling position, now hit all three inside spots as you again suck her breasts. Try to time your deep sucking action with every deep thrust. She will certainly EXPLODE AS NEVER BEFORE!